Mapper, he isn't happy.happy people don't get bakedeveryday. Hide from the world and disappear into a fantasy for hours on end. (Gaming)

He doesn't know any different, and best of all with you he can afford to keep hiding.
He isn't afraid of losing you as much as he is afraid of the mess he would face on his own.

It's so sad that all you do is tear into him over and over.
You keep going on about finding the TRUTH!
What truth? You know it all. Your obsessing over pointless details that make absolutely NO difference to your situation.
So what if his boss doesn't care what he does.
So what if he spends all that money on weed.
So what if he is in a mountain of debt.

None of it matters . Have you 're read your posts, do you understand how often you write the same thing. You could save a ton of time and just copy&paste.

I will say it again,you ar sounding unwell, and should seek professional help, before you cross a line you can't come back from.
One other thing, if you think he isn't noticing your behaviour, you r denying the obvious.

You said you hacked his fb account. If you got the password wrong it sends you an email to inform you someone is trying to access your account. Also there are ways of telling if your account has been accessed.

Anyway, a question, is this how you plan to spend the rest of your life?
And no I don't hate you, I do pity you both desperately. No One deserves to be this miserable.
And all it would take to change things is to talk or walk.