Is it possible your mistaking him wanting to wait with him not wanting you.
Sex is a quick way to validate someone's attracted to you.
Maybe now would be a good time to work on yourself worth.
Can you talk to him about it? I had to do a similar thing last night, I was feeling picky and destructive, I was itching for an argument. So I warned my partner, and he took extra measures to not be baited by my behaviour.

Which I admit was frustrating, but I know in the long run it will help me stop and look at what I am doing.
I wish you all the best, and remember intensity and passion doesn't equal love.
All the best for the future.