Yes, I understand. I have a long-time (life-long) friend I so want to visit with. She has a cute new car and my car is a '92 beater. It barely runs. I've been avoiding getting together with her because I'm afraid she'll see my car.

That said, I really don't think quality people judge us harshly. People are busy thinking about their own stuff.

I hope your get-together goes well.