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Originally Posted by Erebos
Is it possible your mistaking him wanting to wait with him not wanting you.
Sex is a quick way to validate someone's attracted to you.
Maybe now would be a good time to work on yourself worth.
Can you talk to him about it? I had to do a similar thing last night, I was feeling picky and destructive, I was itching for an argument. So I warned my partner, and he took extra measures to not be baited by my behaviour.
Which I admit was frustrating, but I know in the long run it will help me stop and look at what I am doing.
I wish you all the best, and remember intensity and passion doesn't equal love.
All the best for the future.
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Yes I am mistaking that! Last night he called but couldn't talk long bc he had to get up really early. We had talked about where we shop for groceries. I go to Wal-Mart. He goes to the expensive grocery store here. Then we talked about Sunday and how we'll probably do a dinner and a movie instead of going to his lake place. And we talked about different places to go. He mentioned this really fancy steakhouse. I don't have clothes nice enough for it. I got off the phone feeling like ****. I called him back and told him I'm feeling really insecure and asked do you like me? He's like of course. I know pathetic... I'm just not used of being wined and dined, lol. I need new clothes. This is just all foreign to me. Ugh!
I do need to work on self worth stuff.
