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Originally Posted by Peter A
Yes, but according to my first post, my honesty ain't exactly getting me very far with people, because what I'm saying puts them right off of wanting to be associated with me. Once you make negative sounding or otherwise alarming confessions, people always take the easiest route and ban you so they can evade you perhaps doing something like that to them. It's all BS, I know.
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It might not be what you're saying so much as saying too much at once - you're coming across as "intense" - say less until you get to know people better. Don't start w/an avalanche of personal information. That can scare people off faster than the information itself.