Dec,

I don't suspect you and I have gotten to interact as much as we could have in the past, but I have played games with you in the game thread and have read your post.

And YES you belong here. Just because something has happened badly in your life, doesn't mean we value you any less.

Please don't feel that this has to turn your membership into something bad. IT doesn't and if anything it means we need to help and support you even more while you get through this.

I am thinking of you!