My oldest daughter is acting like a spoiled brat drama queen and I'm ready to scream. She and her boyfriend had another stupid argument over something petty and it devolved into another conversation about her weed for anxiety idea. Then she called me unreasonable and said I implied she was developing a drug habit. I wanted to say 'if the shoe fits' but I refrained, although I did say it is not unreasonable for a parent to dissuade her child from breaking the law. You might be asking Why do I insert myself into these arguments? Because I'm triggered multiple times a day by their bickering, and attempt to play peacemaker. I guess I could just wear noise canceling headphones so I can have peace in my own home, but I would rather muzzle them!