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Originally Posted by leejosepho
It sounds to me like she is not actually looking for advice or help other than for trying to make her own ideas work...and that means there is possibly nothing you can say at those kinds of times that will not ultimately backfire upon you. So, I would suggest trying to be very cautious of what you suggest unless you are first certain she is actually looking for your specific kind of suggestion.
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Yes, I agree. I guess I just took what she asked literally and never thought it would backfire. I am noticing more that she tends to misinterpret things, so I think this is the last time I'll give her advice. I just wish that if I hurt her feelings, she would talk to me about it, rather than ignore me. That's the hurtful part. I would more than welcome her to talk to me about where I went wrong. I notice she has a lot of issues getting along with family, friends, and co-workers. Maybe with her, I really can't win....so I'll just have to accept that.