Art, no need to apologize. And no need to share specifics if you don't want to or are unsure. It is ok. I can be literal in my needs because something like "tighten" or "changing" boundaries is very vague. At one point with my t, it seemed like she was less supportive or empathizing or something like that...I didn't think of it as a boundary change. I did wonder if it was a modality shift or a way of trying to get me to be more independent/grow skills. I'm glad that has shifted back.