I think that forum drama happens everywhere. I'm not trying to take away from your experience or say that you should just deal, rather I'm saying that I think this is a common dynamic that plays itself out a lot when you have mods that get on a power kick. I myself was a member of a forum that had its share of issues....I left there about a month ago and came here....Honestly, I like this place better. The rules are better, the people seem to be less enabling of one another, and I just get an overall better vibe here. I think its a matter of finding a good place and making it your "home" so to speak. Hugs.