T switched phones and was transferring texts when she realized there were 5,000 texts from me in 2 years.... and that the relationship needed to change because she was walking with me every single day (at her request might I add) and she couldn't do that anymore, she didn't realize how enmeshed it had become. What irratated me - that I have yet to bring up is she keeps focusing on the 5,000 texts from me.... I just transferred phones and I have a total of 11,000 in our conversation.... meaning sure 5,000 from me but 6,000 from her. So I'm not the 'problem'. I guess I just wish she would say that she sent me that many as well, not just how many I sent her. Does that make sense? Anyway, we are working through things.