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Originally Posted by justafriend306
Well this is his choice, isn't it.
What you can do, in my opinion however, is to set down some boundaries; like no smoking indoors, etc. I would still have tha conversation regarding concerns you have but ultimately this is his decision to make.
Question: what were his smoking habits before you got married and even before you started dating? If this was something you chose to tolerate then I don't think you should expect him to change now.
Are you prepared for this to be a deal breaker?
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Also to answer your question. I'm not going to get a divorce over smoking. My ex husband used to smoke also and it was something I got used to. I love my husband too much to leave him because of smoking and I also don't want to be those wives that dictate every aspect of their husband's lives. For me the smoking isn't an issue because when he smoked in front of me the first time, I was completely indifferent and I wasn't bothered by it all.