Turns out, I was over analyzing the situation. She just got frustrated by the issue she was experiencing and went to bed and said she was angry at the situation and not me. The next day, she told me she agreed with everything I said. I was kind of surprised, because we've had issues in our friendship. As close as we are, she tends to see people as "all good" or "all bad," and this image shifts, based on who she perceives as against her.

The reason I was surprised that she didn't take what I said to heart as much as expected, is that she has a dramatic personality where she will text-bomb me in the middle of night over things people said who have offended her. I try to be sensitive, because she really has a lot going on. One time did involve me when she made a false accusation, but we settled that.

Today, I told her that these things should be brought up on the phone rather than text, and she agreed. Some things, it seems she cannot wait to tell me, so she'll urgently text me stuff. She'll call multiple times a day and text, but I think the bottom line is that we shouldn't text about deeper issues. I expressed this, so hopefully things will get a little better.