Hello Alexandra. I agree that you need something of your own, but I am one of the seizure prone people, and red is definitely out for me just because it causes migraines. although I love the color red I have to be careful with hues of red. I am sure if you experiment with the colors, you can check out chat and find something appropriate to call your own, and if I am ever in chat I can change colors if you would like to use my colors for the day. I can understand you need something of your own, but hopefully you can find the happy medium in life and compromise with someone elses wishes if it is health related. Take care Alexandra. It is nice to have values and it is nice to be wise enough to stand by them. Soidhonia