I'm not much good in chat. Like Direction says, it goes so fast, and who can keep up. I usually end up making long statements that create a damper on the light conversation!
On another note, Peacemaker says, "And, don't give too much concern about the language." Why would you make such a statement? It sounds too compromising, in my opinion. If men wish to come into chat, they should be respectful!
Patty