Direction said, "Probably not a good idea though to write again...don't you think? "
He has said all along that his wife was aware of our communication, and was okay with it, and that she also corresponds with old flames. I have to admit that this is something that would cause me much concern were I married, but he had assured me they are happy, and that he would "never leave her."
At the same time, I have, over these many years, used this contact in place of a "real" relationship, and before he visited down here when I declined to see him again, I told him this. He apologized for having caused this, and I am thinking this is why he refrains from writing again.
When I did see him while he was here a couple of years ago (alone), it caused me a flurry of emotions, since our visit stirred up a lot of romantic feelings with kisses and deep discussions. I told him I couldn't handle that again.
So...that is where it remains, and I am probably better off...don't you think!?
Patty