I am wondering if anyone here ever had a t they adored and had a good rapport with but found them kind of ineffective as a therapist. How long did it go on? Did they get better, improve in time?

It may be an irrational fear or maybe not, that my t and I have great rapport but aren't really getting anywhere. I know it is still a fairly new relationship. He will never be Sparky, my old t with a very take charge kind of style I grew to love. Kashi is very laid back and I fear he treats me like a friend too much. I do get something out of seeing him but right now that consists of pleasant and funny conversation, comfort and consistency. Not bad things it just doesn't seem like enough.

Thoughts welcome!