XT always used to say that the client is in the drivers seat. Even if I would text her about something I wanted to focus on in the following session-it was still up to me to bring it up. When T would say she would do something specific like text me info for something and then forget to do it- I would just wait and then say hey..J you never texted me that info you said you were going to send. Then she would say sorry Jersey, I got distracted, etc. and would then make sure she provided what she said she would that same day once reminded. But, like I mentioned above, anything that was suppose to discussed in session was up to me to follow through with making sure it happened.