XT always thought every session was productive because of her main modality. It's thought that healing happens through the relationship weather your dealing with hard stuff or talking about why the sky is blue. Supposedly they model what a "healthy" relationship is supposed to look like. Is Kashi psychodynamic? If so, it's all talk talk talk with the client leading the conversation. You can try asking Kashi to be more proactive and help with keeping your focus on what you are there for. The worse Kashi will say is it's your therapy and you drive it. But after awhile if you don't think it's taking care of your core issues, then there is nothing wrong with calling other Ts to see if they offer a more structured approach. Please understand that everything I posted here about my termination with XT is just MY experience. Try not to internalize what you read here and don't be afraid to speak with Kashi is something is not working. I think more often than not therapists have other tricks up their sleeve to help their client and if they don't-they will be honest with you in a way that will not traumatize you more and help you find what you need. I truly believe that any therapy relationship that ends badly has more to do with therapist than the client or at least they play an equal part.