I shouldn't even be complaining. He does not treat me bad. Gets me anything I want that is within his means. He's a great guy and I love my husband through the good, bad and different. He's just so oblivious to what is going on around him at times. Like he doesn't think before he acts at times. Plus His
idiosyncrasies get annoying. Example: I was doing the dishes and had a sponge filled with soap and water. He comes in a grabs my arm (in a playful way) and waves it around thus making soap and water go everywhere from the sponge. He's just annoying at times. Now as I'm typing this he's sitting on the couch with me but watching a movie I'm not interested in and he's saying to himself "My Jersey, I love her". And he's saying it genuinely not sarcastically. So, I'm now feeling like a b I t c h for complaining about these small things.