I have been doing a months work of individual research on ADHD and my ex partner/ fiancée has displayed the angry/violent aspect and has dumped it all on me. While accepting my responsibility, I was naïve to exactly what was going on. Her children as well seem to have ODD. Last night I uncovered a great video about DESR which seems to explain her nuclear familial situation. She is very charismatic publicly but seems to be driven to fight to keep up a healthy public persona. She seems to be in some sort of denial. Anyone have any input? She has cut me off completely but I haven't given up hope if not on her but on her children (youngest 16).
Thanks