Morning couchies. My son had 3 friends spend the night last night, and it was SO good to hear him laughing so much. I realized that hasn't been a sound we've heard in awhile, he's so busy between work and school and just not here a lot, and now that he's told me he's been feeling so angry and feels so f'd up in his head that he asked to see a t... well it seems like she's already helped him in just the first session and it did my heart good to hear him laughing with his friends last night.

In other news I feel an argument brewing with h. I have my W2 and he has his 1099 for 2016 but I haven't yet rec'd whatever the form is called that they send out for the HSA, last year when we did our taxes we didn't realize there would be a separate form sent for that so we went ahead and did our taxes early and then in like March I think it was we got the statement for the HSA and the amount was slightly different than what was on my W2. H said don't worry about it, it's so insignificant we don't need to amend our taxes, but of course you guys are all familiar with how I worry - this year I feel like I am ready to do battle that we need to wait for the proper form. He wants to do taxes today and get them done so we can get our money sooner. I want to wait for the proper form for the HSA. Well, the one point in his favor is that we use Turbo Tax and pay for the audit defense, so if we by chance got audited they would help with that, h says that we make so little money that there's like zero chance the government would bother spending money to audit us, but of course in my mind, it's a fear. I did talk to t yesterday about how for me worry=catastrophizing like when I worry about something, I don't even bother starting at A I go immediately to Z where I guess "normal" worry would start at A, and then progress through B, C, D..... but not me. I start at Z....

Does anybody have an HSA (Health Savings Account) through their work that the company contributes to and do you wait for the form? Or do you use the amount on your W2? Just curious. They put in less than $500 in 2016.