I also think some of this not bringing up stuff that happened the appointment before so the client has to guess at what is supposed to be happening is one of those things I think the therapist should clarify at the first meeting - something like "I may mention something but it is up to you to bring it up again if you want. I will not do so for X reason"
I do not know why those guys make clients guess all the damn time while telling clients to be transparent.