For all wondering, kashi's main modalities are dbt and Cbt. But he does not act very Cbt ish. Very little structure. I do like him a great deal. I usually can come right out and tell him things. I know I need to talk to him about this too. I like him in part because I have a sense that he went through a lot personally. He may have a Csa past so I feel comfortable telling him harder stuff. I don't think he is looking at me with any judgement. But the friendliness of the relationship makes me not want to rock the boat. But I probably have to