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Old Jan 29, 2017, 08:42 PM
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Originally Posted by ruh roh View Post
I used to have an HSA that I contributed to (self employed at the time). I could get any information I needed about the account online. Can you look yours up online and add up the deposits and withdrawals for the year? They usually even have the forms available to download. They should be available by now.
Thanks for this. I did go online and found the form. Unfortunately, h got upset with me earlier wanting to wait and find it and he submitted our taxes already without HSA Distribution information. Grr. We use Turbo Tax, so I searched the knowledge base and found out that now we just have to wait until it is fully processed and then submit an amended return in February. Oh well. I really need to learn how to make that man LISTEN to me when I know I am right about something. He was just in such a huge hurry to get it done he refused to hear what I was saying, that the distributions from it are likely going to change what we owe. I guess you only get in trouble if you don't file the amended return and they figure it out, right? My 'good little girl' complex is so activated today. Ugh. I hate knowing I did something wrong. This is going to eat at me all night and I will lay awake and stare at the ceiling convinced that we are both going to hell or jail or probably both. I am about to go into a full blown panic over this. Breathe, breathe, breathe. I see that I am catastrophising. I recognize this, I know it's what I'm doing, I'm not going to panic. I'm not. Maybe someday I will realize how ridiculous my catastrophizing is. I mean it's not like we make a ton of money and don't pay any taxes at all on it. I live in fear of being audited anyway, because of h being self-employed and his 1099/schedule c stuff. He is just so damn sure that the government isn't worried about our peanuts income, he said that it would cost them more to audit us than they would find to make us pay so he tells me not to worry about it. But I do. Every year when we do our taxes and he rushes us through it in late January, I'm scared that we've done something incorrectly, he gets mad and yells at me, I cry, he submits it anyway, and then I worry about it for months. Wash, rinse, repeat. And the cycle begins again. Sigh.
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LonesomeTonight, ruh roh