My last two t's were fantastic which does make it easier to jump right into the work. But Kashi is really easier to talk to than my other two t's. I owe my life to t 1. But he could on occasion be judgemental. My last t sparky seems so perfect it was harder to reveal the uglier side of myself and my experience. Also, having a crush on sparky was helpful in some ways like in terms of motivation but not helpful for opening up.