Don't feel bad and guilty from getting away from him! Don't let him do that to yourself. He knows he is about to lose a damn good woman and that is his own fault. I don't know how you have done it for so long. But I'm so glad you are getting out. Yes, run! You deserve sooo much better. Your kids shouldn't have to see their mom be treated this way, it's not right. This guy is something else!!! And that marriage counselor.. What the!! I hope you will give an update.. Please take care of yourself.