Hi msinfiniti,

Sorry you and your husband are having difficulties right now. Marriage can be so difficult at times can't it?

I would say at this point, since he is unsure and you also seem to be unsure of what you want that you take a break for awhile. Maybe you can have "date" nights. Setting up a time to spend together with no expectations but having some fun together. Maybe bowling, mini golf, taking in a movie, out to dinner, a drive in the country or to the beach or lake.

Sometimes we need to get back to basics so to speak. Think about what drew you both together to begin with and go with it. Leave the issues behind for awhile....give yourselves some time to spend together without the hassles of all the responsibilities. You both deserve to have some fun.....and if you both truly love each other, then I think this might really help with communication and reconnecting as the loving couple you once were.

I wish you both well and hope that things progress in a postive manner for you!

Hugsss
sabby