I have read these two very familiar rings of truth stories..

And if it is possible to share a mans abuse thinking tale I may actually "O K Submit " this.

Two young people get together at a young age>>>>> And the lust and infatuation is the connecting force.,,,For that time.

Then whatever makes one decide to go to be in such a rage ,,hate,, and belittleing way.>>> I think ,,,tis not possible to say.

Reflecting later and where they might have been in their lives prior to meeting ,,,could possibley open ones eyes of things to come ..

Unfortunately no one has such as it would be a welcomed piece of ornamental display The Crystal Ball that holds that persons life ,,,past ,, present,, and future,,,for all to see.

Walking on eggshells ,,,choosing right words as not to offend .Only to find out later ,, that they were abused themselves ,,,or hurt so deeply.... They no not the freeing feeling of forgiveness... ((( Which will / can /or ,,never come in this lifetime.)))

And yes there is always that things as usual the first few hours of the next day..Maybe.

Then when possible through all the pain ,,,betrayal,,,and lies. Away from all the frustration you disappear,, to no longer be found..
And then to your chagrin,,,,,,,,,,,,finding of the other happens again... And likewise help is the key,,, to unlock that door ,,in which was lived.

And if care was enough ,to stop the hits,, the hateful looks,,,>>> the lies...........................

And sometimes you fall for the know them and wish them no harm,, and all the best. So that door opens again,, and maybe it won't be the same.

Now as you may have quessed,,, and if not I am the one who was hit still deals with the hateful looks and of course ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,the lies. ((( Throws hands up in air ))). Walks away>>>> and knows I MUST care..

Funny thing that thing called Karma ..,,, As she asks why her has to be not terriblly old..and going through chemo.>>>>>>>>> But then as I do my best to let her rest,,,,walking on eggshells still,,,,,,,,,,,,and only when she is drunk,,,do I hear her say YOU REALLY DO CARE !!!!!

So everything I have learned to this day,,,,,is I meet a person and I wait a year and a day.. If they are still there and things are ok? I will believe they could/might ,,be a real friend.