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Originally Posted by captgut
i never told but i think i should. thank you! of course i feel nervous but i'll tell...may be. some day. omg.
i think i have both paternal and erotic transference, but it never was a problem. one day he just became too perfect without a reason. it makes me feel even more useless and unimportant than before. i can't understand what happened.  
I'm sorry you had a difficult session yesterday, are you ok? |
You don't have to tell everything at once. Even just making a comment about how his life seems perfect, without going into how it makes you feel, could help.
Thanks for asking. Doing better today after talking to marriage counselor on the phone for a bit last night (it was the session with him that was difficult) and also to my husband.
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