There are guys out there who are looking for something more serious. Unfortunately, from what I've heard, online dating isn't the place to find them (at least not easily), as many there are just looking for a one night hook up.

This sort of game is nothing new. I'm on a friendship site and the same games are played, guys only wanting something more but they are cagey about it or else they'll be booted from the site, and when you're straightforward with not wanting an "involvement" they ghost you. I think its just the nature of the internet bringing out guys who just want sex. They don't have the skills to go to a bar and pick up a woman for a one night stand, so they resort to dating sites.

Thus, I say keep on trying....hopefully you'll find someone.


In terms of unanswered questions.....he's definitely ghosted you. There is one standard question that I receive and when I answer it honestly I never hear from the guy again. I'm going to just stop answering this question and ghost them LOL.