I understand being bored with life. I also understand the urge to have a baby because I still have that once in a while despite the fact that I've settled on not having a child. However, as people have pointed out, motherhood isn't something that's done out of boredom. A baby is a human being, not a time-filler and a way to make you feel better. Chances are, you'd probably get bored and tired of motherhood eventually as well and you'd want to move on to something bigger and better, and that point, it's too late.
Try finding something you're really passionate about besides having a baby. Volunteer opportunities, your job, a hobby...anything. Something that makes you feel as though you have meaning because that seems to be what you're seeking from what I'm getting from your post.
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Originally Posted by brokenandalone1234
I am 26 and my biological time clock is getting faster and faster each year. I want a baby so bad right now. My fiance doesn't think we are ready though. I just started a new job 4 days ago but it pays real well. I can't even enjoy sex anymore because all I can think about is having a baby. I am sick of my boring life. I know being a parent is a lot of work and honestly I want all the work that comes with being a parent. I want the extra the time it takes getting ready to leave the house, I want the getting woke up 3 or 4 times a night may be more to take care of a baby. I sit at home doing nothing as it so I am ready for motherhood. I don't party on the weekends because bars and drinking aren't fun to me. I have lived my life and I am ready for my life to be about someone other than me. My fiance tells me to enjoy the easy days but I am sick of the easy days.
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