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Old Jan 31, 2017, 06:43 PM
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Originally Posted by stopdog View Post
I don't actually understand the sequence of events I don't think.
If she said "I think you are X and your past therapists did too" and then called you up and left you a message that she was wrong and that one of your past therapists did not think you are X = then I would not find it offensive. I would find it somewhat incompetent and would find another (or others) to hire and quit this one (which it seems like you have been sort of trying to do any way) - but I can't say offensive is the word that comes to mind for me.

I don't fully understand how she would know about the other therapists or have their notes - how did she get them and why?
Okay, the conversation went like this (spread out over about 25 minutes):

DBC: I think you have x disorder.
ATAT: I disagree, but why do you say that?
DBC (begins to enumerate symptoms, to each of which ATAT points out it either doesn't fit her or is obviously due to current stress and trauma)
Finally. DBC: You know what? I'm going to stop walking on eggshells and be honest. Your other providers thought so too.
ATAT: All of them? What is the point of telling me that?
DBC: I'm being honest with you where they weren't.
(Exit ATAT)
(Voicemail from DBC 45 minutes later saying she was wrong about No. 3)

She spoke to 2 and 3 with permission, and requested the psychiatrist's notes because she wants to make a complaint against her for "abandoning" me last fall.
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