Okay, the conversation went like this (spread out over about 25 minutes):

DBC: I think you have x disorder.
ATAT: I disagree, but why do you say that?
DBC (begins to enumerate symptoms, to each of which ATAT points out it either doesn't fit her or is obviously due to current stress and trauma)
Finally. DBC: You know what? I'm going to stop walking on eggshells and be honest. Your other providers thought so too.
ATAT: All of them? What is the point of telling me that?
DBC: I'm being honest with you where they weren't.
(Exit ATAT)
(Voicemail from DBC 45 minutes later saying she was wrong about No. 3)

She spoke to 2 and 3 with permission, and requested the psychiatrist's notes because she wants to make a complaint against her for "abandoning" me last fall.