My T said something similar to me once. When I told my mom about my inappropriate relationship with my former T...all she basically said was "I suspected it" which threw me for a loop. My T said if he suspected his daughter was going through that, he would definitely say something. I can't wrap my head around why my mom didnt. Maybe she wasn't 100% sure, and it is a pretty crazy accusation. But that is very typical of my mom. She's not dumb, and she notices a lot more than she allows herself to comment on.