Some of us are here due to the damage others have caused so listen. If you even think this girl is a narcissistic person RUN as fast as you can. I was married to one and it will never get better. They will invent new was to emotionally tournament you. The minute you feel secure they will rip the rug out from under you. It's not worth it. I wish I knew the word narcissist 18 years ago. Get away from this person if you even remotely think that's what she is. She will empty your soul and never have one second of empathy for your pain.