youOme, my abuse was different. It was mainly childhood abuse. I have never been in a relationship with a man who abused me, so I don’t have many answers for you. I am replying to your post because I want you to know I am here and I care about you. Although my abuse was different, one thing is in common—the fact that neither one of us deserves to be treated like that—we deserve to be cared for and loved. Please do what you can to take care of yourself.