Just reaching out so you don't feel alone----

I haven't been married to a narcissist but I have had experience with them. A family friend was married to one for years, and two out of her three sons are now showing narcissistic tendencies. (Its good you sheltered them on one hand, on the other hand, maybe they need to see their father for who he really is?) Suffice to say, the narc is dead because he pulled a Steve Jobs and thought he was above getting treatment for his cancer. (True narc style, right?)

No, you're not alone. Hopefully others who have survived narcissistic marriages will post soon. Hugs.