I just wanted to make a point about the sex thing. It isn't just about sex, it's about intimacy,feeling loved,adored,wanted. Nothing says that more than falling asleep in your partners arms, and waking up with them the next morning.
Even if he is asexual, I can promise you that doesn't stop the need for contact.
My eldest daughter is asexual, and she adores cuddles and sleeping with her boyfriend.Touching, massages. All these things.
There are a lot of misconceptions about being Ace.
I don't understand why sharing a bed would be an issue even if he was Asexual. That's really my point.