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Old Feb 01, 2017, 05:01 PM
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Originally Posted by SoupDragon View Post
This is interesting, as it's something I am asking myself at the moment. 7 years with my T and I know at the beginning it was hugely important for me and I have learned a lot, including being able to trust to some extent. But now it feels like we're getting nowhere. I still have daily struggles, I may have more insight into them, but they still have an impact on me. I wonder if this really is as good as it gets and I will never progress beyond where I am now. I think my T has tried really hard with me, but wonder if it's time for both of us to call it a day.
I think giving it a break may be better than just stopping. One thing is that is will be hard to just drop the T after that long, the trust and open communication will be greatly missed. Maybe spacing sessions out a little further and see how that goes. T's are an addictive drug that you have to wean off
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Thanks for this!
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