Seesaw, I saw that you are having a tough time with online dating. I'm really sorry about that. I didn't read your whole thread though. It seems like its not uncommon for women to have a harder time dating than men. I've heard there's more women than men in the population, and to be honest and not bias at all (being sarcastic here) I hear men are less likely to be self actualized. They are less likely to get help for their issues if they even acknowledge them at all. Sorry to any guys here. Its just what I've heard and experienced as a woman.

Seeker, I'm a female. And while I find your observation discouraging, I'm wondering if it might be true. Men honestly seem more superficial than women in terms of the entire outward appearance sort of thing, including the "So what do you do?" question. And yeah, I'm looking for a partner in life, not a sex hook up, which I have also noticed, a lot of men go on there for that. Thanks for telling me to take care of myself first. I do. It's always good to hear that though.

Artchic, why do you say that? I will probably agree with you but just wondering.