At one point eharmony wouldn't allow you on their site if you were not employed. Is it still like this? It kind of felt like a slap to the face to anyone who has the misfortune of being disabled. Then again, I don't think anyone would want to date someone with a profile like mine (having to disclose a disability and struggles with being employed <by someone else>). Funny though, I'm on a friend type site and I can't tell you how many people have messaged me just to say that I have the best profile on the whole site---leave out ONE factor and I'm awesome?!? It sucks that I have a "do not pass go, do not collect $200" factor that makes me completely undesirable. Its like the damn childhood r*pes never stop giving me fun, huh?

I'm disabled so that knocks me out of the running. I am building my own business, but it will be awhile before I can actually say I'm "employed" I suppose.