I'm greatly struggling with sexual triggers myself. I guess my triggers are a bit different than yours but I just wanted to let you know that you're not alone.

Therapy is an option, but I know in my case, I don't know if therapy can do much more than it already has. I know the skills, I know I need to use my skills, I know I need to be around safe people....now I just need to do it.

Hugs. (I'm female, so I hope that's ok...I don't want to trigger you if you don't want hugs.)