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Originally Posted by AkairoNeko
Dude , i am just like her and trust me ... She is the victim !
She is more hurt than you are , not because you've been bad to her , just because she is very fragile because of a past parenting related emtional trauma .
When the problems in your relationship appeared your honeymoon period is over. That means you got to familiar wit each other and the passion was starting to fade .
She felt then a lack of attention and love . she started feeling really bad about herself , her self esteam got really low , she started feeling that she is a drag for you and started distancing her from you thinking that she hurt the only person that could love herand that you got sick of you and that she is awfull and you will only suffer together .
Now she rejected the pain she caused herself and went on with her life and you came back to bother her again .
Give her all the love you have if you want her to get better , never judge her , try not to correct her too much , make her compliments and little from the heart presents ... be the most romantic lover that ever existed , ecourage her to get hobbies , to find new friends to hang out with and to start loving herself and you will get an amazing grlfriend .
if you can't leave her and never talk to her again in your life , she will find someone who can !
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You really misunderstood me,the last 5 texts that i wrote her i expressed every emotion possible that i love her i would in a blink of an eye give my life for her and do everything for her,she did not care,She lacks empathy big time,she pulled me into a game and then she removed herself emotionally,started talking to other guys,caught her kissing guys in front of me and telling me he is my friend,i don't really know how could someone kiss a friend in his mouth in front of me and try to manipulate.
I closed my eyes everytime thought it would get better but nothing,she continued with abuse while i was left alone in the darkness suffering dying from inside she tried to suck every bit of my soul left,by stonewalling and gas lightning me never giving me a specific answer the last month,being all lovey dovey with other people in facebook,and what did i do to deserve this?
I begged proved pleaded showed her real love cared for her saved her she even called me her White Knight,and in the end i'm the worthless scum who she has no time to talk or ignores me,and talks with another 100 guys from my back,everything i said i proved to her.
What can she ask more of me?The last time i pmed her i wrote around 10 pages of texts of every bit of emotions that i gave her reminded her of the past and she did not care.
Just to get a simple answer which was I dont know,do i really deserve this abuse?
I would rip my heart out of my chest in seconds just to not go through this mental torture,how can someone be this cruel and abusive lacking empathy,gaining my trust then leaving me brain****ed.
If someone really loved me from the beggining would she have done this?I don't really think so,if someone pulls back without a reason she never loved me she just played me