Thanks for your responses, I am 21 and he is 34. I am very very careful and would never meet with out someone and I would make sure it is in a public area. I don't actually WANT to hide him, before this I always looked down on those who met people online that's the problem with explaning how we met. So far my gut dosen't say anything is wrong, and I've had experience with meeting someone online before and they wanted to meet... and I decided there was something "fishy" going on so I told him to go away. I know there are predators but honestly, I have heard there ARE good people out there I mean hey I'm online. A 21 year old woman who goes to college and has never been in trouble with the law, not even a speeding OR parking ticket. He even said when we do meet he dosen't want it to be a date or a romantic thing. Just a get to know you meeting and we'd decide from there. He is kind of nervous about meeting incase it ruins the relationship we have now.