i think i will try and go in there and try to talk some more about my brother and what went on . ill try an walk in there and just sit down .after she has situated herself i can just tell her that i would like to try and talk some more about my brother and ask her if that is ok . if i get a good vibe from that i can try and continue . i want to correct her on her misconception that i was just mimicking the sexual abuse i suffered on him . that was not the case and i have not been able to talk to more about it other than to tell her that was not the case .