(((Squirrel))) your mom has her lawyer. If anything can legally be done, he will see to it.
If your mom truly needs help, there are services that can help her. You dont have to do it. That is pretty much word for word what my previous female t told me, about 11 years ago. I was like, but you dont understand! She was just, you have to take care of YOU; your mother can take care of herself; she goes,
I will get her help if i have to. Im like, but she just wants it from me. The t is like, thats too bad, isnt it? Other people can help her, period.
That t saved my life. Let her save yours too.