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you have to face the anger and/or pain and other things that go with that.

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I think that you hit on something there. I don't want to deal with all the difficult feelings that relationships bring up. Fear, anger, attachment, whatever. It's easier being numb.

It's weird, though, because even when I think I'm ready to deal with those feelings, it's hard to get to them sometimes.