Hi there

I started a new relationship on the summer of 2016. When i tried to have the discussion about the past and "our numbers", he brushed it off saying he didn't care. We did say our numbers (same for both us, 3). I wanted to talk more about it and know the causes for which the relationships ended and all of that. He brushed it off again. I began falling in love almost immediately; no one had ever treated me with that much respect and love. Things were so good we never talked about the past. Until we decided to get tested for STDs so that i could switch to the pill and we could stop using condoms. Turns out that my previous bf had given me chlamydia and i din't know about it. I could have lied to him, but he was the first person I told about this. I got him a doctors appointment to get tested immediately (he tested negative). We both got the medicine, went through the no sex period dand fixed the issue. After that, he started asking questions. A lot. He became obsessed with my past. I'm not good with details or dates so when i mindlessly said something he would cross reference it to something i previously said and then confront me about it. In late December, i left my email unlocked and he read some messages from okcupid and match (from 4 years ago) when things got heated up and became sexual in those messages (sexting). He pretty much called me a hoe. Then when he saw what he did, he changed his demeanor, got me a card, flowers and apologize for having issues with my past. I love him and i want to mend things, but i'm not stupid. I know he was some abandonment issues from his childhood His mother gave him up to his grandma at birth and he is very sensitive about that. I love him, but i'm not willing to put up with him shaming me every single time he feels like doing it. I know that what I did was not right, but i feel he needs to grow up and accept it. I wanted to have the talk right away and be clear about everything. I should have fought to have the talk early on, but we were so happy that we didn't care about it. But after the STD and he reading my email, he feels like i was hiding those things from him. I am honestly confused and I don't know if I should stay with him and help him through whatever issues he is having accepting my past. Or if i should leave and have peace of mind (just thinking about it makes me sad). I would appreciate feedback on the post. Thanks