I don't know , should you be self conscious about it?. There are all sorts of reasons why someone may not have a job. If you have valid reasons then I wouldn't put yourself down over it. I haven't worked since 2000 (I'm nearly 61). My reasons? A .. I spent years caring for my mum B After she died I couldn't find a job I wanted to do and C I'm financially OK. Sure if I need to work to pay the bills I would, even if it meant stacking shelves. I'm out every day at the sports centre to lose weight and get fit and I've done voluntary work so I don't think I'm a slacker. If you're not either then you should feel good about yourself and confidant amongst other people. It's their problem then if they judge you.